Perry (Pat) Warren Eblen
Perry (Pat) Warren Eblen – Father
Perry (Pat), my dad, was born in Cumberland, Iowa into a family with 8 sisters and 3 brothers.
His family was not well off and the 4 boys all had to quit school after 8th grade to help support the family. Dad was good in school and was allowed to skip one grade so he went to work when he was thirteen. He and his brothers spent a lot of the summers fishing and he said that was the families main meal often times. He would remain a devoted fisherman his entire life.
Dad worked wherever he could, mostly on farms and construction jobs. He told the story of when he was teenager he was in southern Minnesota close to Christmas time picking corn – by hand of course. He was homesick and started walking home to southern Iowa to have Christmas with his family.
When he was eighteen he was in Oklahoma as a foreman on a crew of 30 African-Americans laying paver bricks on cobblestone streets. When he was in his early twenties he came to Oakland, Iowa (where he would spend the rest of his life) and learned the carpenter trade from his brother-in-law. Dad married my mother in 1931 during the depression.
He told the story of how he chopped fire wood paid for by the town of Oakland. The town then would provide this wood to the needy. Dad said many of the recipients of this wood were just as able-bodied as he was but didn’t want to do the work. Dad was a life-time conservative and would not be happy today to see the welfare state being created.
Since he was older and had three children dad did not serve in the second World War (too young for the First World War). By this time he had his own construction business and a crew of approximately 12 men. His entire crew was drafted into the service and all were sent to the Pacific theatre to fight the Japanese. During this time we lived on my mother’s family farm and dad continued to do carpenter work along with some farming.
After the War and with all of the soldiers returning home construction was a good trade and in 1948 we moved to the town of Oakland. All of his men returned safely from the War and they all came back to work for him which they continued to do for the most part until dad retired. Dad was a hard task master with his men but he managed to give them work, even when times were not so good. Some years he was building new churches and homes and then there were difficult years spent repairing old farm buildings.
I admired my dad, as most sons do. I always marveled at how he took pleasure in the simple things of life, like fishing and baseball. He taught me how to hunt, fish and play baseball. We spent many enjoyable hours walking through timbers and fields where he would discuss different topics. He worked hard and long hours and I didn’t have lots of time with him growing up so I cherished these times. I was a fairly good baseball player and he enjoyed this time with me. He played on the “old timers” team well into his fifties.
In 1967 they discovered a aneurisms on his main aorta. At the time bypass surgery was new and had only been successfully performed at the Mayo Clinic in Minnesota and by the Debaky Institute in Houston, TX. His name was put on a waiting list to both of them and he got into the Mayo Clinic first after a three month wait. They inserted a plastic pipe into his aorta and he enjoyed a good life for nearly another 20 years. Dad was a lifetime smoker and after this surgery he never smoked again. He said it was a hard way to quit smoking but he just never felt like another cigarette. I found a half smoked pack (LM’s) of leftover cigarettes from this time in his desk when I cleaned it out after his death.
Dad enjoyed visiting with his family and when I was young we would often go spend a day at one, or more, of his sisters or brothers. They had all lived through some difficult times and they remained a close family throughout their lives. Dad was close to his mother whom he lost in a fire in 1945. Dad visited his dad in 1959, shortly before he died, where he lived in a special care unit. When dad came home he said he didn’t think he had recognized him and that brought a tear to my dads eyes – the only time in my life I ever witnessed a tear from him.
On a Sunday morning in 1985 I called my folks, as I did every Sunday morning, and talked to both of them on separate phones. Dad said he wasn’t feeling well and was going to get off of the phone, I said goodbye and he didn’t answer me. A short time later my sister called and said he was gone. I’ll never know if he heard me say “goodbye”. There have been few days since that day that I don’t think of him – all good memories.
PARENT (M) Perry Warren Eblen | |||
Birth | 22 OCT 1902 | Cumberland, Cass, Iowa, USA | |
Death | 1 SEP 1985 | Oakland, Pottawattamie, Iowa, USA | |
Marriage | 15 MAY 1931 | to Cathryn Jessie Caughell at Nebraska City, Otoe, Nebraska, USA | |
Father | William Topping Sherman Eblen | ||
Mother | Elnora Caroline Dorcas Devore | ||
PARENT (F) Cathryn Jessie Caughell | |||
Birth | 28 DEC 1914 | Council Bluffs, Pottawattamie, Iowa, USA | |
Death | 21 MAY 2002 | Griswold, Cass, Iowa, USA | |
Marriage | 15 MAY 1931 | to Perry Warren Eblen at Nebraska City, Otoe, Nebraska, USA | |
Father | Robert Ray Burnes Caughell | ||
Mother | Della May Smith | ||
CHILDREN | |||
M | David Perry Eblen | ||
Birth | 28 MAY 1941 | Council Bluffs, Pottawattamie, Iowa, USA | |
Death | |||
F | Jane Kay Eblen | ||
Birth | 12 MAY 1937 | Oakland, Pottawattamie, Iowa, USA | |
Death | 24 FEB 1994 | Omaha, Douglas, Nebraska, USA | |
F | Joan Lee Eblen | ||
Birth | 26 FEB 1933 | Oakland, Pottawattamie, Iowa, USA | |
Death | 22 MAR 2010 | Griswold, Cass, Iowa, USA |